Some people have problems with family and friends. To most people family always comes first, but it makes it difficult to do so when your family is falling apart. Some of us have either a sister and brother, a sister or a brother. I have I sister and I love her to death, but she also have been tarring up my family.
My sister is 17, not telling you her name because that will be giving too much information. She had met this guy that is a little younger then herself. She began wanting to spend more time with him then her own family on weekends, and one day she snapped when dad said that she couldn’t go to his house. She went a little crazy, so we asked grandma to come get her so that she will have some time to think about what she did like an adult. But the problem was, grandma lets her do whatever she wants and covers for her in the process. When she finally said that she was going to come home one Sunday after she gets out of church with grandma (I never really liked going to that church, because I feel like that they don’t worship like they should). Saturday, she was supposed to be in a marching combatention at the school and the thing was, she came out on the field not marching and not dressed in her uniform. My mom began to freak out and then get mad, so I tried to talk to my sister after words and all she said was that she was feeling sick.
Later on, we learned that she lied to our faces and went to get her boyfriend that night to spend the night with him. After she got caught, she said she was never really going to come home and mom cried her eyes out, I have never seen her cry that much in my life. I hate it when my mom begin to cry about something I really can’t do anything about, I just hate that feeling of being worthless to help my own mother and that my sister would hurt my mother like that. She told people that my parents did cruel things to her, not going into detail of what she said, and they were all lies just to get to my mom.
Later on I told them, grandma and sister, that if they want to hurt my family, do not DO NOT do it to my parents and if you want to hurt my parents you will need to do it through me. I began to be sick of them doing this mostly to my parents.
Now to the friends part of the post, sometimes you have friends that don’t act like real friends and they may be “fake” friends. Friends come and go throughout the years. When one of your friends meets a new friend and they both spend more time together then with you, then tell them how you feel and hopefully they will understand. Their is plenty of humans on earth, you can have to find the people you can be your self to and be their friend. Have plenty of friends you can get because you can’t live forever, but remember to BE YOURSELF with your friends.
I hope this made anyone realize that Family and friends is the most important thing in life. Having friends gives you the time to be yourselves with other people and tell things to, trust them that they will help you through anything in life, they are your friends for a reason. Family is when you be together forever and love each other, even though the family is falling apart, it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other. Thanks for reading! 🙂 ❤